Facebook Security for Parents

Social media (the devices by which we interact online) and social networks (the network of people connected by Social Media) are redefining parenting in the 21st Century.

Having been involved with Educational Technology for 14 years, I have a unique perspective about social media. On the whole, I am a fan, and use social media as a teaching device whenever possible. As a parent, I have concerns.  I do not believe that our children are adequately prepared to deal  in a mature fashion with all the technology they have at their disposal.

My vision is to empower teens and their parents with the necessary tools to navigate this technology safely and effectively, and harness its power to enhance life.

Let me begin with one of the primary concerns of all parents -- Facebook. During the past few years, I have conducted many surveys of my students' technology habits. The data regarding Facebook in particular were very enlightening.

Profile-accessibility:
     When I first began teaching the proper use of Facebook, most of my students assured me that their Facebook profiles are secure.   Using one of my surveys, 64% of my students reported that they were sure that their profiles were closed to public viewing; the remaining  were to varying degrees unsure.  After teaching my students how to lock down their profiles, I discovered that  in fact more than  85% of my students’ profiles were viewable to the public.  Many of these profiles contained phone numbers, pictures and addresses. Consequently, even when a student believes he has been diligent about profile security, he can be endangered by her less -scrupulous friends.  I often see pictures of teens on Facebook with identifying school logos and store or street-names in the background.  This,coupled with lax profile security, can be telling information for predators and bullies.

     What comes next shocked my students: Whenever someone plays any Facebook game,  takes a poll, or even passes along peace plants, (all third-party software) complete access has been given to the author of that program to all of their profile information.  Third-party software is a serious concern when dealing with Facebook, and my advice would be not to use any third-party software and advise your child to do the same.  At the very least, be aware of the risks inherent with third party software and have your child ask permission before allowing access to it. In Facebook’s exact words:
     “Remember that these games, applications and websites are created and maintained by other businesses and developers who are not part of Facebook, so you should always make sure to read their terms of service and privacy policies.”

Pictures on Facebook
     What is  more distressing is that, in the “Facebook Terms of Service,” there is language that  indicates that anything that is uploaded on Facebook can be used in any fashion as long as the content is viewable to others:

"For content that is covered by intellectual property rights, like photos and videos (IP content), you specifically give us the following permission, subject to your privacy and application settings: you grant us a non-exclusive, transferable, sub-licensable, royalty-free, worldwide license to use any IP content that you post on or in connection with Facebook (IP License). This IP License ends when you delete your IP content or your account unless your content has been shared with others, and they have not deleted it."

     More clearly stated, any picture or video that is made available for others to see can be legally used by Facebook for as long as that piece of media is viewable to others.

     For example, I told my students a true story about a journalist who saw her friend's picture on a plastic-surgery advertisement on Facebook. The journalist's friend had no idea that a picture that she had posted was being used this way.  Even if Facebook does not use the picture, other third party sites may use them.  Try Googling Facebook picture used ad”“, the first result will be from Facebook “debunking” this sad trend, just read on.  Whether Facebook uses the media or not, the language in the TOS gives them full reign.

     Lastly, I asked how my students had gotten their Facebook accounts, despite age restrictions. Some said their parents allowed them to lie about their age. And some kids just went ahead and created one with out their parents knowing. 

What to do?
1. Seriously reconsider allowing your child to have a Facebook account.  Remember, what is done online is permanent and unscrupulous, illegal or immoral activity can affect the possibility of getting into college or getting a job.  It could also seriously damage his reputation.

2. If you allow your child to have a Facebook account, do not let him lie about his age. There are certain precautions Facebook does take to protect the young. For example, any member under 18 will automatically be exempt from public directory information, and Facebook will restrict what adults can contact them.

3. Friending your child does not work! It is easy for teens to restrict their parents from seeing their posts, relationship status and posts to friends they know you do not want them contacting.  You must have your child’s password and use it to check his account often!  Please refer to my blog for a screencast entitled “How to check Facebook security & how your child may block you.”  the screencast also includes other topics on social media parenting.

*Remember until brain growth (pre-frontalcortex) stops in their early twenties,  young people have little idea about  risk assessment.  Risky behavior does not come from being irresponsible kids, but simply from being kids. 


Please click here to see "How to" videos on Facebook safety for you and your child. Also, visit the Facebook video tabs above.

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Facebook Security for Parents by Jennifer Cronk is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 United States License.
Based on a work at www.transparentlyteaching.com.